Tougher Than the Weather

We didn’t get the blizzard that our friends and neighbors in the northern part of the state hosted on this Lord’s Day. We didn’t get the multiple vehicle wrecks and slide-offs, the electrical outages, a foot of horizontal snow or the double digits below zero wind chill. We didn’t get the four- and five-foot deep drifts, the wide area road closings or the strandings in strange territories.

We did get some mighty stiff gusts of wind, a modicum of snow and sleet, and enough of a wind chill to make you grateful for warm socks and good shoes. It was certainly raw enough on Sunday morning that you could pretty easily convince yourself that the good Lord might not get too mad about you skipping church.

And so, I was expecting a rather light crowd at our community church in South Haven, Kansas, Sunday morning. And, at about three minutes before start time it sure looked like I was right. At that point, there were about fifteen, maybe twenty of us. “Doc,” one of the others said, “looks like it’s gonna be a pretty small group today.”

“Yep,” I nodded and grinned wryly, “kind of looks that way.”

And then, I looked out the hallway toward the parking lot and saw a whole group of folks coming in. In just a couple of minutes, our number more than doubled!

Whether you’re having church, getting things started for the annual town picnic or hosting a family get together, it’s always downright encouraging when other folks show up. Just knowing that other folks care enough to get there, even when it’s not all that easy or comfortable, is like a real sincere slap on the back or pat on the shoulder. It’s a completely visible and tangible way of saying, “Hey, we’re all in this together and we’re going to do what we can to help make it work.”

Sometimes, when you’re wondering whether or not your part is worth doing, remember that just showing up means a lot more than you may ever know. Especially on a raw winter day when even the preacher might be thinking about just staying home…

H. Arnett
11/28/18

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The Hard Truths of Winter Remodeling

In the raw chill of these early hours
while the last hint of summer flowers
lie wilted and blackened in the berms
and the terms of winter
have matted the tomato vines in the grass,

I pause in the passing of last night’s rest,
an unscheduled guest of pre-dawn contemplation,
roused from the warmth of soft covers
and tossed by thoughts of jobs and projects
and the pursuit of objective consideration.

The streets are quiet and the gutting gusts
of Sunday’s wind and the blizzard to the north
have settled into the aftermath of their sending.
I am trying to decide whether the beginning
of this day’s doings should be in the attic or the crawl space.

Both are necessary and neither will be comfortable.

And even though it has been quite some time
since I could find my way to where I wanted to be
without some level of inconvenience,
some measure of discomfort
and even an occasional bit of pain,

it has not kept me from the occasional seeking of gain
with a minimum of the other.
And though it is sometimes said that the best things of life are free
I have often found that most of the pretty good things
are bound up in several layers of hard work

and more than a modicum of prayer, patience and persistence.

H. Arnett
11/27/18

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Lifting Those in Darkness up to The Light

Our congregation, Community Church of South Haven, is taking on a special week of prayer for those who are going through dark times in their lives. We invite you to join us in lifting up those that you love and for whom you care.

If you would like to use this prayer, you may find it helpful. You may, however, prefer your own wording. Regardless, please spend a few minutes each day this week, lifting up to The Light, individuals that you know who are struggling with discouragement. (If you are one of those individuals, we especially encourage you to use this prayer for yourself.)

“Lord Jesus, you saw how the darkness of depression and discouragement led even your cousin John to doubt whether you were indeed the Messiah that he had already proclaimed you to be.

“I ask you therefore to look upon _______________ in mercy and compassion. Please send your Holy Comforter to her/him to speak reassurance and hope. Give her/him wisdom and peace for this day. Give strength and encouragement.

“Remind _______________ of your infinite love, amazing grace and help her/him to feel the witness of your presence today.

“Help me, too, Lord Jesus, to be your instrument of encouragement, support and compassion.Give me grace and wisdom that I may say and do what will be a blessing for the needs of this situation.

“In your name and by the power of your Holy Spirit, amen.”

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Hiking in the Dark

Darkness began closing in as we continued ascending the Bright Angel Trail toward the south rim of the Grand Canyon. A day of spectacle and wonder, that had begun before sunrise, drew near to its ending. Overwhelming experience—the scale, the colors, the formations, the variation of stone and vegetation and the marvels of water—had filled Mark and me with inexpressible admiration and appreciation. He had been to the Canyon before but never hiked this far into it; it was my first experience with the spectacle other than seeing it from six miles above. Definitely not the same.

In the heat of summer, what we were doing would have very likely devastated us physically. But in the thirty-eight to seventy-eight degree range of a late October day, and with plenty of water, heat sickness wasn’t an issue. Other than the deep blisters growing on my heels and the growing pain in his knee, we were holding up pretty well. The training Mark had pushed us through on the steep bluff trails back in Camp Horizon was paying off.

But with fifteen miles of canyon hiking behind us, our energy was beginning to fade like the daylight. We were still about a thousand feet in elevation below the rim when we stopped to pull out our strap-on headlamps. From all the hours of seemingly unlimited vision, when we frequently paused to take in the miles-long views of layered stone and eroded colors, our vision for the last two miles of our hiking was limited to twenty yards or so in whatever direction our head was turned.

In the darkness we no longer had any clear sense of how far we had to go. We knew to keep putting one foot ahead of the other and pushing on. Sometimes when we came to a switchback, it wasn’t immediately clear which way the path went. A number of folks who’d come before us had apparently taken several steps in a different direction, exploring a possible diversion, creating a “false trail” of worn stones and steps. A brief pause, though, and looking both right and left, quickly showed us the true path.

“Lord, don’t let us wander off on a wrong turn here in the dark,” I prayed. “Keep us safe, give us strength. Thank you for the wonder of your creation and for the health to be here experiencing this. Thank you for your love and presence and your incredible power.”

There are times when the glory of the light fades into night. Even though the wonders of the day may no longer be within our seeing, we know that our path calls us onward and we need something more powerful than good memories to help us continue onward.

When the dimness of our own seeing can no longer show us what lies before, he who has created all wonders still walks with us. When fatigue tugs at our limbs and exhaustion etches into our joints, he who has shaped our path will still give us strength. And rest when we have finished our journey.

H. Arnett
11/5/18
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An Unexpected Glory

On a recent trip to the Grand Canyon with a very good friend, we decided to spend the early part of our last morning watching the sunrise from Grandview Point. Several other folks had the same idea and found their way there earlier. By the time we arrived, about fifteen minutes before the sun actually broke over the rim, they had already taken what were ostensibly the “best seats.”

Being blessed by a willingness to get off the beaten path, I scrambled around some of the less hazardous looking options. I took a few silhouette pictures as I maneuvered around the edge of the bluff. Just after the sun flooded that edge of the rock, I noticed a narrow box opening where one large boulder balanced against another. Their junction created a space about two feet square and a few feet long. The opening was about eight feet above the path I’d found, with a narrow ledge leading around to it. I had no idea what was on the other side.

“If I climb up there and crawl into that,” I pondered, “I could maybe catch a really neat view of the sun.”

So I worked my way carefully around the narrow ledge and climbed up into the opening. My own shadow blocked most of the light shining through. As I crawled out the opposite side, I saw a small overhang immediately to my left. About two feet high and arcing about twelve feet along its upper edge, it cut back beneath the bluff about four feet. The space was filled with a few inches of dust and small rocks. I wormed my way into it and rolled over to look back. What I saw nearly took my breath away.

The shaft of light coming through that box opening lit up the low corner of a small boulder and a patch of steep bank. Everything in that small spot seemed to glow in a golden wash of light: rocks, sticks, pine needles, lichen on the edge of the boulder. A half dozen wildflower blooms seemed ablaze with light.

When we leave the easy path and follow the unspoken leading of the Light that lives within us, we will see things that we cannot see from the usual places. We may find ourselves covered with dust and cramped in small spaces from time to time. But the perspective we gain will be sublime, illuminated by a divine presence that we witness when we look beyond ourselves. When we allow the love of Christ to live within us, we may see the most common things attain a glory that we never expected.

H. Arnett
10/30/18
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Another Fine Mess

While hiking out at Camp Horizon on Sunday evening, I followed the trail from Cardiac Hill over to the Arkansas River. Having slogged through a good bit of soggy bottoms on this hike and having had to improvise a couple of flooded crossings last week, I was glad to see the water had receded considerably. I estimate the level had declined by fifteen feet or so, leaving a lot of mud and debris behind.

That mud was precipitously slick as I approached a small ditch that empties directly into the river. A bunch of natural debris had accumulated on the narrow footbridge which was still submerged. Water from the backed up pool trickled through the sticks, stems, branches and dead leaves that were matted against the little dam. Nature’s little construction project stretched about twelve feet wide, forming a pool over two feet deep at that point. Below that point, the water flowing out was only a few inches deep.

I looked at the water backed up on the upstream side and thought, “It’s gonna take quite a while for that to all drain out at this pace. This whole place will be stinking by then.”

So, seeing the opportunity to get a bit muddy and do a good deed at the same time, I decided to let my inner child come out and play for a while. I did take the cell phone away from him first and laid it on a safe, dry spot, along with the hiking poles. Then I let the little scamp have at it!

While nearly sliding into the ditch several times, I managed to pry loose several key sticks and branches. I created an opening nearly two feet wide and about ten inches deep on the near corner. Water poured through like university football fans crashing a barricade following an upset victory over an arch-rival on their home field. It churned through the loose trunks and chunks right below the dam and swelled up to eighteen inches deep almost immediately.

I wanted to stay and watch until the pool was drained but I knew as far back up the channel as the water was backed up, that could take a few hours. As I carefully worked my way back up that slimy slope toward the trail, I used my hiking poles for balance and leverage. Every few steps, I looked back at the water spilling through that opening. By the time I got out of the mud and back up to the fine gravel path, I was carrying an extra pound or two on each shoe.

With the sun slipping quickly below the low Oklahoma hills off to the south, I headed back toward the truck parked a couple of miles away. While the red sky reflected off pools of water still held in the bottom, I reflected on a few lessons:

 From time to time, we’ll come upon an opportunity we didn’t expect and that others would never call an “opportunity.” Those are really special moments; they let us be who we are—even if no one else wants to be who we are!
 We won’t always be able to stick around and see the end of the good that we begin. That should never keep us from getting started and pushing it forward a bit.
 Sometimes the need of the moment leaves a bit of a mess on us. As long as it’s the type that washes off, we shouldn’t worry too much. If it’s the type that doesn’t wash off, it really isn’t an opportunity. More likely it should be called “temptation.”

H. Arnett
10/23/18

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Copperheads & Conversations

A bit later, I would observe that it was the most beautiful copperhead I’d ever seen. All of the others were the dull, dark color that I usually associate with the species, pretty much the deep tarnished hue of an old penny that’s been lying around for a few decades. This one was the color of a brand new coin, except for the trademark pattern. I’ve never seen color that bright on a copperhead before and I speculated, later, that it must have just shed its skin very recently. My keen appreciation for the viper’s beauty and speculation on explanation were somewhat delayed by one simple fact.

The fact was that at the precise moment when I first became aware of its existence, my left foot was no more than four inches away from its mouth. Sometimes the manner of discovery has quite an impact on our level of appreciation for the beauty of the beast.

I was hiking with a good friend along something like a logging trail winding its way down the long slope of Cardiac Hill at Camp Horizon in south central Kansas. The space between the two worn and bare wheel tracks was grown up with grass about six inches high and sprinkled with recently fallen autumn leaves from the trees lining either side of the trail. Mark was walking along the left side and me on the right, enjoying our conversation and the beauty of an October afternoon. Neither of us noticed the snake woven into the grass and leaves in between us.

Mark’s awareness followed mine pretty closely. I’m not sure if it was my sudden exclamation or unexplained leap forward that garnered his attention. Maybe it was the combination. I’m pretty sure it was the expression on my face that most affected him.

“You were about five feet in the air,” he hyperbolated a bit later, making little effort and with even less success to mask his amusement.

It’s not my first close encounter with poisonous snakes. My oldest son’s quick warning kept me from stepping on the largest copperhead I’ve ever seen about thirty years ago in Bluff Woods near Saint Joseph, Missouri. In the Red River Gorge in eastern Kentucky, I discovered a small timber rattler at fairly close range but slightly out of striking distance.

On this most recent encounter, the lack of a strike probably owes to a combination of factors. The last few nights previous, the temperature had dropped into the low thirties and the afternoon temperature was in the fifties that day. We were walking at a brisk pace, giving the snake little warning of our presence until my foot suddenly landed and soon disappeared from right in front of it. The snake was not coiled but when we stepped back for a closer look, its neck was pulled into that classic S-shape that allows for a very short strike.

When Mark probed one of his hiking poles near the serpent’s head, it moved slightly but made no attempt to strike. Maybe the combination of cool temperature and the recent skin-shedding had left it a bit lethargic. If lethargic is the only option between the snake being dead or a hundred miles away, I’ll happily settle for lethargic. Mark slipped the end of his aluminum staff under the snake’s middle and flipped it about ten feet away and off the trail. It landed with a bit of a thud and made no effort to move. We did, in our original direction but with considerably more attention to the path immediately ahead of us.

Not all of the dangers that we encounter come with vivid marking and obvious fangs. Sometimes we find ourselves in a relationship that turns inappropriately romantic. A friend or business partner makes a proposal that skirts the shady side of a thin line. A single small lie gives us an advantage in a job interview or financial deal. We become too preoccupied with our own concerns to notice the warning signs in an adolescent child or a decaying marriage.

In a world filled with constant temptation and dark forces that seek our emotional if not physical destruction, we can hardly be too careful. We can sometimes seek a safer path but there are times when our calling takes us into the proximity of the occasional serpent. Prudence and Providence can lead us safely through those times and places but God expects to keep our eyes open. Sometimes, too, it’s a good idea to wear leather boots.

H. Arnett
10/22/18

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An Easy Lift

As I headed out of town for a late afternoon nature hike, I saw a man walking alongside the road about a mile east of the roundabout on 166. He carried what at first seemed to be a gas can, making me wonder if his thirsty vehicle was close by or miles away. As I got closer, though, I could see that it wasn’t a gas can; it was a lunch container.

“Wow!” I thought, “what a lousy way to end a day of work; having to walk home.”

I slowed down as I passed him and pulled over onto the shoulder and waited. I lowered the window and as he got up to the car, he leaned over and looked in. “Where you headed?” I asked cheerfully.

He replied, “Lou Ann’s Trailer Court, out near Parkerfield.”

I invited him in and pulled back out onto the highway. He told me about his day of work and pointed out where I should turn next. As things turned out, it wasn’t even slightly out of my way. The ride saved him three or four miles of walking and made the afternoon better for both of us. He got out of the car at his home, thanked me and added one more thing before he closed the door, “God bless you.” “You, too,” I responded.

If a cup of cold water given in the name of Christ does not lose its reward, I’m pretty sure the Lord can make the occasional free lift for a sojourner worth my while.

H. Arnett
10/18/18

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A Dog of Two Tales

The Old Quarry Trail rises up—rather steeply at some points—from the old quarry sitting near the river bottoms to a grass clearing at the top of the ridge out at Camp Horizon. The upland point is near the lodging and meeting rooms at Inspiration Point. I’d just reached the top on a training hike the other day and was headed on my way back down. The serenity of my solo hike was suddenly disrupted by a ferocious barking. I turned to see a young black Lab charging toward me.

I quickly raised up my aluminum hiking poles and clacked them together a couple of times. The dog kept coming toward me, hackles raised on its bark and still barking. In my best Caesar Romero calm and assertive voice I said, “No! No!” The dog immediately stopped and turned around. I resumed my way down the trail with a faster pulse than needed for the exercise, silently speaking harsh words to whatever sort of owner would bring an aggressive dog to a public area and not keep it on a leash.

Back down at the quarry, I carefully crossed the twenty-foot tree trunk I’d laid across the flooded trail. My trekking poles again came into good use, letting me keep my balance even as the trunk twisted slightly beneath my feet. A half-hour and half-mile later, with a red sun flaring the edges of evening clouds, I made it to the crest at Inspiration Point. I took several pictures of the Arkansas River valley from that vantage point and then looked along the knife-edge ridge toward the meeting rooms and parking lot. I was only a two-minute walk from the Quarry Trail clearing where I’d encountered the black dog.

Sure enough, as I looked across the path, I saw the same dog about three hundred feet away. He saw me at about the same time and stiffened into alert pose, staring at me. Given the greater distance and the momentary lack of ferocity, I decided to try a different approach on my second encounter.

“Come here, boy,” I called in a firm but friendly voice. He tilted his ears toward me and relaxed a little. Then I knelt to one knee and called again, “Come here, buddy. Come on!” and slapped my hand against my thigh a couple of times. He immediately broke into a run, tail wagging and tongue out. I held out my right up, palm up. Without hesitation, he came right to me and I kept my hand below his head and began lightly scratching him under his jaws. I rubbed his chest and ribs, then worked up gently to his ears. Anyone walking up on the scene would have probably figured it was my dog.

My new friend explored the trail back behind me and I walked toward the parking lot, coming up on the lodge from the south side. The dog came pounding up the trail behind me and ran on ahead of me to greet a young woman and small child who were just getting out of a car parked in front of one of the apartments.

“Ahh… the owner who keeps a dog in a public area without a leash on it,” I thought and then mused a bit further, “And the small child the dog was protecting when I’d come up the other trail a half-hour earlier.”

It certainly brought a different perspective to the situation. It also reminded me of how a different approach can sometimes trigger a very different response from others. Especially when it appears to them that we are trespassing on what is very clearly their territory…

From time to time, a bit of wisdom and empathy might lower the need for courage and self-defense. On both sides of the trail.

H. Arnett
10/17/18

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The Power of One

Most of the folks participating in the three-day workshop had cleared out by lunch time on Friday. As I was walking into the dining area, I noticed one of the participants sitting alone off to one side. After I made my selections from the catalog of dining options, I carried my tray over and asked if I could join him. He readily obliged.

Over the next half-hour or so, we had one of those serendipitous conversations that are so very rich and rewarding. You know, the kind that makes you contemplate that maybe it wasn’t just complete coincidence…

As we shared a bit about career paths—mine is about twenty years further up the road than his—John mentioned having made a job change after his young son was diagnosed as autistic. “C.J. needed someone to be home with him a few hours each day so I gave up an administrative job and took a teaching job,” he explained.

I was pretty impressed with that and I’m not all that easily impressed. Then he shared something that went even beyond that.

“Everyone was telling us that he would never be able to live independently, never be able to learn at a high level, never… They said we needed to accept that he would always require care, always be living with us.” He paused, then spoke again, softly, “But there was this one therapist who said, ‘I don’t agree with that; I think he is very capable of learning and doing a lot more.'”

And so the whole family took on CJ’s education; even his older sister Hanna played a vital role in helping develop his communication ability. With the therapist’s guidance, he learned the techniques that most of us just absorb naturally as part of growing up and interacting with others.

As a result of all of that faith, love, effort and determination, CJ not only finished high school but is now going to college… and majoring in physics.

“He wrote his own essay describing how his autism would actually give him an advantage over other students. He brought it to me and..” Here my new colleague seemed to choke up just a bit and I believed I could read more than a decade of gratitude and pride in his expression. “… I was just so proud of him. All the years, all the work, all the doubts that everyone had… but he was doing it!”

Many people deserve credit for that powerful moment and all that led to it: teachers, aides, counselors and of course, his family. But the success of this story began with one therapist who refused to choose the easier path of acceptance and chose instead the liberation of challenge and belief in someone else.

Those who give hope to others unlock more good than they can possibly imagine. Let’s never give up on that!

H. Arnett
10/15/18

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